Consequence of Rejection

What i most fear about is the self-rejection one goes into once we do not accept or surrender to it.

I remember, how we made this far through difficulties that seemed impossible.
I remember, how many times we were saved at the very last minute ~ this time.. Is no different!!!

"How do you spell love?" said Piglet.
"You don't spell it. You feel it!" said Pooh ☺️

There's One sad truth in life I've found while journeying east & west.
The only folks we really wound are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know. We please the fleeting guest.
And deal full many thoughtless blow to those who love us best. ❤️

#somethingwefailtounderstand

My favourite steps of great life:
1. Look Back and Thank Allah.
2. Look Forward and Trust Allah.
3. Look Around and Believe Allah.
4. Look Within You and Find Allah..

Sometimes Allah..
Breaks our spirit.. To save our soul.
Breaks our heart.. To make us whole.
He sends us pain so we can be stronger.
He sends us failure so we can be humble.
He taakess away "soomethiinng" from us.. So we can learn the value of "everything" we have.
Sometimes hurting is needed to make us grow.
Loss is needed to make us gain.
Failure is needed to make us know.
Because some lessons are best when learnt through pain.
But when sadness fills your heart, when tears flow in your eyes Always remember 3 things.
ALLAH WAS WITH YOU, ALLAH IS STILL WITH YOU, ALLAH WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU. Stay calm be content and See through His Hikmah what is happening is happening for your own Good.

"A man who is a master of himself can end a sorrow as he can invent a pleasure. I don't want to be at the mercy of my emotions, I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.

The past and present fit together beautifully in a passionate defence of passion itself. ❤️
creativity is intellegence having fun

Of all the ways we have found to hurt ourselves, the worse has been through love.
We are always suffering because of someone who doesn't love us, or someone who has left us, or someone who won't leave us.
If we are alone, it is because no one wants us...
We forget that love is a blessing, not a debt.
All we can do is TO LOVE without wanting anything in return

Victim of Labels

You are forgetting the basic MOST important thing.

True success comes from doing it FOR YOU, NOTHING ELSE MATTERS.

In a few weeks time everyone will be a part of your past. You have to do it for you.

We both know the damage labeling can do.

Don't let them do it to you. Not Now. That is totally cruel, unkind and unnecessary.

It's reverse psychology to push your buttons which shows they know absolutely nothing about you.

The only answer about this is to do it for you then there is no chance for anyone to put you down.

Forget them they are a disaster motivation based on negative comments. NEVER works.

Every time it comes in kick it out. Know you are far, far talented than they will ever know.

You just need to follow the dictates of your heart for they are the true words of Allah and Only He knows your capabilities. This is the most powerful lesson to learn. Life is a journey about expanding your heart through communication with Allah and following His Loving Guidance. Open your heart and forget the rest. None of them exist for you now!

You are so much more than that. Don't limit yourself by putting grades on yourself. You are a truly excellent highly motivated and self disciplined individual capable of true greatness. NO labels, just rock solid cast iron self belief.

I AM A TRUE CHAMPION!!!!!

I CAN DO ANYTHING!!!!!

Tell your brain the time limit and hit it. Go into the stretch zone and it's really empowering. If you get stuck ask yourself. "Why am i doing this??"

Listen to the first answer and adjust the positivity accordingly!

Power of Positivity

Unpredictable is the nature of life. It takes you where you take it. The supreme irony of life is that hardly anyone gets out alive. There are only two tragedies in life; one is not getting what you want, the other is getting it. Only you can change your life no one else can do it for you. Here the vast expanse of human nature raises a metaphorical question. Every soul has a story of their own hidden inside them. 

This world is a place of much linguistic, ethnic, cultural and economical diversity. Since the landing(evolution)  of the first human beings, Adam and Eve, on this planet Earth, the trend of carrying generations in the form of families was a simultaneous process that occurred in a rhythmic pattern. Population consists of communities. Communities are made up of societies and families make up societies. Whereas the individuals among those families create the nature, either good or evil. They are the ones to characterize the status and repute of their environment and their own selves. They are the ones to control how they mold their lives in such a complex and dynamic environment. The element of diversity enrolls every human being with each other in a separate way. Having different levels of understanding, feelings, relationships and so much more..  Thus, being part of each others lives. While every single being has their own life no matter how interlocked and involved to others. Dependent or independent. 

So..  Peace, harmony, trust, hardships, hope, struggle, limits, feelings, emotions, thinking, perception, beliefs, faith, hatred, love..  How many things, lives or people accompany to ruin you or destroy your life or creating it or filling it with happiness, joy. Despite all this, it's up to oneself how you handle and turn everything into positivity.

Kindness to self?

Time.
Pressure.
Unexpected loss.
Deadlines.
Cancellation.
Failure.

It just seems sometimes that nothing you do or say goes right.
Like right now...I'm here to say "You are wrong."
There is always something right in every wrong.
There is always something good occurring somewhere at the very moment that bad rules your day.
When you fall flat on your face and you think you can't win, it is in that moment when winning will begin.

You are broken and afraid. You are beaten down.
You fear you can never get back up again.
Good. Be there. Take whatever time you need to get the crying and moaning out of your system.
Because the truth is, you will never be able to rise again with all that negativity weighing you down.

Spit it out. Scream at the top of your lungs.

Tell the world you quit and then walk away.

You are broken.

But what may break you may also make you.

The act of defiance against all that is good,

means that deep down inside you did all you could.

So, now is the time to face the new you.
You've been there all along, that's truer than true.
You've learned who you are and shed what you're not,
it's time my good friend to give all that you've got.
The falling is easy and quiting is too.
The rising again is all up to you.
So remember this...

1. What breaks you makes you

2. What ends always has a new beginning

3. The one who continues on always wins.

I believe in YOU!

"Little deeds of kindness,
Little words of love,
Make our Earth an Eden, 
Like the Heaven Above.

Beautiful Patience

A mistake is a page and the relation itself the book,
For reasons that keep us sane and together,
Never discard the whole book just for one page!
Patience is better, and what is beautiful patience?
You are being tested and yet you are grateful!
When at the end no worldly means equal the relations and love we have,
What in life could be a greater test than our bonds?
And what better opportunities to exhibit beautiful patience?

I agree in valuing those we love we do lose ourselves, a painful process which makes us forget how special we are. The truth is, having gone through this is more painful than loosing the one we value. But then what is BEAUTIFUL PATIENCE?
If i ask, what wrong is using the three filters to our tongue before we speak.
Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind?
Do we ever sit back, wait and see if the situation could take a turn other than the one we are turning it to? What if we let it sink, let it shrink and ask ourselves, what's more important?
The relation or the feeling we are holding onto?
You know! You know that at the end of the day without that person, your job, your degree, the books you have read, the land you own, the money you earn, the house you have is nothing but another rant to share with that loved one. What will you still crave after-all?
The love!?
The connection!?
The depth to it!?
What you gave!?
How many hearts you touched!?
You know love, it's the most important thing that exists on this planet, universal to souls like food and air is to bodies. Learn to forgive instantly, harmonize, reconcile and bend. To be kind and soft, not stiff and hard, for stiff is the one without a soul.
All relations go through hell, real relations get through it.
Relations are made with emotions. Understanding the beauty behind what we do with and for each other, and the feelings behind that. When it comes to harsh times, one has to be the string to hold on to, the kind one to not let the relation get effected is what is beautiful patience. Being there absorbing all the negativity and still glowing enough to allow the person to be able to talk, to be able to move on with you to stay and be grateful together is what demands courage and makes love flourish.
Becoming that shoulder, that support to hold on when one of us gets weak to allow us to walk together, a little further, to allow enough space, to let the nagging inner voice die. For calming down and letting each other breath would definitely spare us the cost we have to pay for that relation we shouldn't take for granted.
One for which we must practice BEAUTIFUL PATIENCE!
To make the relation look and feel like the most amazing thing in the world, we have to treat it like the most amazing thing in the world. The strength is to choose to love each other even when we are struggling to like each other.

I always ask myself, affection or perfection?
And the answer is always affection.
What's yours?

Choice.

Have you ever struggled with judgmental, critical or self-defeating thoughts?

Oftentimes we leave these negative thought patterns unchecked, but what we don't realize is this:

When we are doing that, we're deeply embedding thoughts that cause us to unconsciously repel the things we truly deserve and desire - money, happiness, fulfillment, love, abundance and freedom.

Our minds have the power to FUEL success in every area of our life.

The way is to ask ourselves
What is it that is acting like an invisible barrier and keeping you from getting the results you want?

Do you know?
Or,
Did you ever ask yourself?
How you developed these "invisible barriers" and more importantly, how you can easily remove them so you can effortlessly move closer towards your goals. 

How to reach ultimate success in every area of your life and no, it's not about how hard you work, who you know, or how much money you have. It is about what pleases you, what turns your smile on, what makes you happy and peaceful,

what makes your drive stay fed, what makes your passion spark.

Do you realize, you are someone/something you have been choosing yourself to be!
Do you realize what your daily small choices have been making you?
What have they been turning you into?
If at this moment you doubt any of your simplest choices you have to sit back. Reconsider and make a decision with confidence taking into account what will you be after the fulfillment of that choice?

Reaching colossal success is actually A LOT simpler than we think.
All we need to do is think, feel and act smarter.
But how?
Sit back and give yourself freedom, the chance and space to decide using enough time to intend something, to brainstorm on its pros and cons and assess its implications and impact.

You might be wrong in the long run.
But you know what your boosted confidence, self esteem and belief in your choice without doubt would not let the negative energies pull you down and instead you will move ahead without fear and full of courage no matter what resistance you face.

My question to you is.
When was the last time you gave your choice enough importance?

Forever Dearth

The mind seeks attention, but we have other priorities which consume us, slowly and progressively the mind keeps giving up it's needs for us till one day it can no more.
That is when we suffer mental health disorders. It is as important to take care for our minds as it is to take care of any other organ. Heart expresses its disease and the mind silently bears it, in doing so, in being ignored one dies within, and no one can empathize with you let alone sympathies.
Why such discrimination?
When every other disease and diseased receives both from all sorts of people. Then why doesn't illness of mind receive either?

Torments, taunts, torture?
Struggles, sickness, suffer?
Pretend, pain, penalty?
Stories, society, stigma?
Die, depress, dark?
Hope, heal, hard?
Survivor, struggle, strive!
Dare, determine, drive!
Relax, refresh, revive!