What if'?

What if you woke up feeling inspired and full of energy - every single day?
 
What if you knew you were living a life of purpose and passion?
 
What if you could make an incredible living while also creating a full and abundant life?

What if you understood the power of your brain?

What if you could only imagine success and never procrastinated nor did you ever loose hope?

What if what you thought of receiving was given to you without having to worry about it?

What if you could live every single day without stress?

What if you ain't ready, you ain't willing, you ain't wishing to be the extraordinary to be the unusual self, what if you are?

You know what i can go on haunting you with them words!

But the point is.
"What" and "If" are two words as non-threatening as words can be.
Would you put them together side-by-side and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life.

So do you know when in learning the 'whats' did you add the 'if' to make your life as miserable as nightmares?
In short let your life be a short happy present, the now. Rather than turning it into a scary today.

Im pretty sure all of us have our "what ifs" and "should haves" and what i realised in removing them, is when you try to come out of it and you succeed a bit, there would come a phase where you will be stuck in the "what if" and the "fuck it"!

Take my advice and FUCK IT.
HARD.

Rejection.

What's important?
Getting over with it, facing it, accepting it?
What's important to learn?
How to overcome its fear?
How to deal with it?
How to avoid it?
What is more important and is genuinely going to help you live through the phase of rejection with ease?
Acceptance and Surrenderance.

Accepting that it is a part of life, we know it can come yet we dissociate it from our lives. But you see? In the kingdom of desert, water is the king and shadow is the queen. When you are in this desert you don't have your king nor your queen. You feel alone and dejected. Only because your will wasn't fulfilled and so you can't at that time in any way submit to what is being decided for you in your good because you can't see the good in what life decides for you seeing what is better and beyond your thinking.
Surrender to the consequences of rejection, the actual fear which consumes one. We cannot deny the pain but we can acknowledge the emotion. Admitting what you feel is positive attitude and compassion towards self. It provokes you to take care about who you are and not let rejection define you.
Surrenderance is a proof to the fact that you have pushed your limits in trying to achieve a certain goal, passion or person. This proof makes it evident that you are taking the learning from it and are ready to move to the next chance and avail the opportunities opened for you with greater energy, mature will and renewed power.
In despair, we oft keep looking at the door that is closed for us for so long that we fail to notice one that is opened for us. This i would say is a failure upon failure.
Rejection hurts, it definitely does, would you want to keep on living in pain?
Move on and see rejection as redirection.
Life doesn't get easier, only you get stronger!
And when you reach further on paths opened for you, you will realize why that decision and rejection were meant for you and what you gained from them.
If only we could see the gain in rejections we would smile to the loss offered in the past.
Gratitude fills us when we are capable of recognizing how we are being protected through rejections from what we would not have been able to bear truly.